Hi;
If you tree this process you will see that going first is a severe disadvantage.

Summing the series to infinity.

So the probability of the first player being killed is 6 / 11. Make sure you go second.
This assumes that the game is they spin the chamber before each shot.
I agree with you regarding the satisfaction and importance of actually computing some numbers. I can't tell you how often I see time and money wasted because someone didn't bother to run the numbers.
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